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If anything, racial bias has intensified a bit.” A close friend, Sarah, is living proof of this.
She's an attractive, half-Chinese and half-Caucasian 24-year-old woman, who uses OKCupid.
“People have to go with what they feel comfortable with.
If you’re from an Indian background you might prefer to date someone Indian.
Jo Barnett, a dating coach, tells me: “I don’t think it’s racism. You’ll get people who say, I don’t like red-heads, or I don’t like short girls, skinny girls… But when I’m coaching someone, within reason I’ll get them to look beyond that.” More than anything, she just thinks it’s a “shame” that people could be missing out on relationships because of their narrow viewpoints, or insecurities.
She tells me that she’s noticed many men choosing to date white, skinny women who are either blonde or brunette: “Some guys want candy on their arm.
But there does seem to be a difference between making cultural assumptions, and people claiming they’re just not attracted to certain races, or fetishising them.
AYI analyzed some 2.4 million heterosexual interactions—meaning every time a user clicked either “yes” or “skip”—to come up with these statistics.Unsurprisingly, most “yes’s” go unanswered, but there are patterns: For example, Asian women responded to white men who “yessed” them 7.8% of the time, more often than they responded to any other race.On the other hand, white men responded to black women 8.5% of the time—less often than for white, Latino, or Asian women.Even if you don’t explicitly mention it, your inbox will inevitably contain messages from people fetishising your colour.You’ll also get the odd comment from racists who just want to tell you how much they don’t like your skin.
When she pointed out that she was actually Indian, and naturally brown, he stopped replying immediately.